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I’d like to share what the boys did the other day. Meet Fakundo (not his real name), the latest recruit of the Cullens. His talent? X-Ray vision.

Now, the serious stuff.

What Greg Behrendt and Liz Tuccillo wrote in their book “He’s Just Not That Into You” were the same things your grandmother from the Titanic era would have told you about boys. Nothing really new. In fact, you might be in for a little surprise. Those small rational voices in your head apparently talk sense, if you only know how to listen.

Here’s basically what the book is trying to tell women whose minds were muddled by mixed emotions and endless guy interpretations. If the guy does not do anything to declare his affection, stop obsessing about him. He’s just simply into himself, and not so into you. If a guy thinks you are the one, nothing can stop him from moving the universe to make sure you both end up together. Unless, of course, you respond in his favor, or not. You have the power to decide who stays in your life, and who to annihilate.

Men are never hard to decipher, if only women exercise the use of their brains and avoid getting swept away by tides of emotions. However, I do not advise jumping into the bed with a guy to run a compatibility test. That leaves you in a more vulnerable situation. The bed should never be an option to settle relational issues.

Now you get the idea what the whole book hype is all about. If you’re still single, don’t lose heart. I don’t. I believe in a greater calling. What I mean is the men we are bound to end with are simply out there busy with a lot of things. When the time comes you meet him, that could only mean one thing: He’s ready.